Love Dare

Every marriage has/ had problems, love problems?. Now, we can either make them a reoccur everyday. Or, we can work on them like adults and work our way through them. Now, listen, If you work hard a treating each other with respect, patients, and with Love we all can be happy.
First, you can surprise your spouse with on act of random kindness.
Second, you can not say one hateful thing to your spouse for one day at a time.
Third, with respect, show patience with your spouse, stay calm and be nice.
Fourth, try these acts everyday,
then one day your spouse will notice the difference in you and they will start showing the same type of compassion's you have shown them.
If you are having problems or come a fork in your paths, sit back and actually talk!, ... No yelling, or fighting!
When something very heart breaking or just in general a hard time in your marriage, when this occurs! There is nothing ever wrong with getting someone to talk to. Someone that will be able to give you good advice, and not the wrong kind.
When you took those vows in marriage, you took them for sickness and health, good times and bad. Not, just for the healthy good times!
We, as humans are the only beings on this earth that has feelings of remorse, and regret. So, if you feel like there is something in your marriage that is blocking or holding you back. Get it out in the open. You have to take the bandage off one day so it can get air and heal properly. This is the time to grow up and be a good partner in life.
We as adults need to show our children what a marriage really is. Not, what the world has made it. Short, no love, no respect. and then Divorce, and see how much money you can get out of the other one.
Stop the hate, and remember why you fell in love the first time, Remember the things about your spouse that made you attracted, and loved that person. Those things are still there, you just need to find them again.
Take time out for just each other,...
Send that person something special just to show you were thinking of that person.

Remember:

Love is patient and love is kind.
Work things out and you will have a strong relationship!